“Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you chose your life, you didn’t settle for it.”
— Mandy Hale
Don’t be a parent…
If you can’t handle the fact that your child might come out gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered.
Don’t be a parent if you can’t handle
the fact that your child may have a mental illness.
Don’t be a parent if you can’t handle your child following a dream that you’re not too fond of.
Don’t be a parent if you can’t handle your child dating someone outside your race.
Don’t be a parent if you can’t handle your child being different.
Don’t be a parent if you can’t handle your child looking different.
Don’t be a parent if you wont have family time with your child.
Don’t be a parent if you plan on not being in your child’s life forever.
Don’t be a parent if you have doubts.
Don’t be an abusive parent, mentally and physically.
Don’t be a parent if you get mad when your child opens up to you and tells you the truth yet you punish them only for at least telling you the truth.
Don’t be a parent if you’re going to end up being a horrible parent.
Don’t be a parent if you can’t handle being a parent, don’t be that weak ass parent to not love your child the right way they deserve to be loved.
Don’t be selfish.
I don’t want to settle. I want mindfucking love. I want to spend all night thinking about kissing you, and when I finally get the balls to, I want to go deaf to everything but that moment. I refuse to settle for anything less.
Late night thoughts (via bl-ossomed)
celebrate your personal victories because no one else understands what it took to accomplish them
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